Proposing Marriage or “popping the question” with The Four Words – will you marry me can be a daunting task for some people. Remember, it’s an enjoyable and life-changing event, so make the most of it and enjoy yourself.
Is she a laid-back type of woman, or is she the centre of attention when you go to parties? A woman’s personality should always be factored into a marriage proposal.
If she loves being the centre of attention, she’ll appreciate the big orchestra and the public proposal. However, if she’s laid-back, she won’t like all that attention, and something more personal would be better.
As for when to pop the question…when she’s stressed out or focused on something else. Also, it’s best to avoid proposing when family and friends visit. You may think sharing this occasion with relatives and friends would be great, but after proposing, you will want to be left alone to process this exciting event.
If she is the laid-back, more introverted type, strip back all of the big gestures, carry the ring around with you, and wait for the right time. It could be when you are both laughing together over dinner or simply when you are cuddling during a movie.
If she is the more adventurous, you could take a helicopter ride up a mountain and have a picnic ready. Pop the question as to when the sun sets. Or make a night of it, stay in a lodge, and have the helicopter pick you up the next day.
If it’s the winter months, plan a trip to the ski fields and write different phrases in the snow that are visible as you’re going up the ski lift. At the very top, have the last phrase, “Will You Marry Me?” (Make sure the safety bar is down when you propose!)
If you both like long walks, what better place to propose than at the trail’s end? It’s symbolic of your journey, and the view at the top will be breathtaking.
It’s no secret trend; the Flash Mob Proposal has been popping up everywhere for the last few years. They’re so full of energy and emotion – and even more so when friends and family join the mob. So if planning a big surprise is what you like, this could be the way to do it.
Christmas is already a particular time, but proposing makes it even more special. Hang the ring box like an ornament on the tree. When the last present has been opened, say, “Wait, there’s still one more present”. Get them to find it hanging on the tree or grab it and propose. You could also wrap the ring box inside several more giant boxes so she has no idea a ring is inside.
Restaurants have always been popular places to propose. Call beforehand and get their advice on the best way to propose in their restaurant. Perhaps the proposal is written on a plate, or the waiter delivers the ring and your food.
Skywriting is such an excellent way to make a statement. You can have an intimate and private marriage proposal while still proclaiming your love to the world.
And finally, if you have travelled somewhere and are heading to a theme park, get her to sit in the front of the roller coaster or log ride and get everyone behind to lift pieces of paper with the words Will you marry me as you pass the photo point. As you look at the photos at the end of the ride, get down on one knee.
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