Traditions are a huge part of a couple’s wedding day. Whether it be ‘something old, something new, something borrowed or something blue’ or simply the bride wearing a white wedding dress, there is a reason behind everything.
With some traditions being obvious and others more understated, most brides and grooms will incorporate some into their big day whether they choose to or not. Wedding traditions vary depending on the culture of the respective couple; however, there are some common themes that are present at most weddings. These include but are not limited to the bride wearing a white gown, wedding rings on the fourth finger on the left hand, the bride throwing her bouquet, guests throwing rice after the ceremony, and the infamous kiss.
Something old, new, borrowed, and blue are the four items associated with good luck that a bride should carry with her on her wedding day. It was also thought these items guaranteed fertility and prosperity for the newlywed couple. Something old is traditionally something that the bride’s mother wears on her wedding day, for example, earrings or a necklace. Something new is traditionally a gift the bride receives from her husband before the day. Something borrowed symbolizes those around you and those present on the day offering their love and support. Lastly, something blue is often featured subtly in the wedding dress or the bouquet.
Wedding rings have always been worn on the second to last finger of one’s left hand. This is because of the “vena amoris” vein. It is thought to be the only vein in the hand that runs directly to the heart, and thus, it is more commonly known as the vein of love.
Guests are often gifted rice to throw at the newlywed couple when they walk down the aisle as husband and wife. This tradition originated in Roman times when guests threw wheat at the bride and groom. The throwing of rice is thought to symbolize prosperity, good fortune, and fertility raining down on the couple. It is a common tradition that many brides and grooms incorporate into their wedding day.
Another tradition, and probably the most well-known, is for first-time brides to wear a white wedding gown, which symbolizes purity. It is more common for those remarrying to wear a coloured or off-white dress. Ironically, a similar tradition is non-existent for men, with most men choosing to wear a dark-coloured suit for their wedding day.
Although not all couples choose to adhere to these traditions, many still do, hence they are still very much a part of weddings today. Here at Polished Diamonds Jewellery Design, we want to ensure that your wedding and engagement rings are all you wish to compliment your special day and last a lifetime. Which is why each ring we create is unique and personalised. If you would like to start designing your perfect ring or browse our range, don’t hesitate to contact us to start designing – we’d love to hear from you.
